In Walks Prince Charming

I still remember the first time I saw him…On the weekends, I would come home to wait tables at a restaurant in Dallas. Papa was in the Air Force and was recently relocated back to Texas. Needing something to do, he got a job at the same restaurant. It was love at 1st sight. We locked eyes and I knew he would be the one I would spend the rest of my life with…doesn’t that sound romantic? Here’s what actually happened…I saw him and I went on about my business. I can say, he had his eyes on me. Soon after, we were introduced; opening the door for him to slowly squeeze his way in.  

Let’s not forget, I was still in a lot of pain when I met papa. Only a year had passed since I had an abortion and while I had accepted God’s forgiveness I was still going through the process of healing. BUT looking back, this is how I know God used him for part of that healing…

Things were different with papa. Content with only my friendship, he waited patiently for me. All the while, never allowing an opportunity to pass without making me feel seen and special. Eventually I accepted his request to take me on a date. From that moment after, we were inseparable. We dated for a little while before becoming “boyfriend & girlfriend”. Establishing a foundation of friendship that will carry us through some of the toughest times in our marriage.

Let’s be clear, when I met papa I was damaged. I still wrestled with my anger and the sadness that still lingered from past mistakes. He was so patient. He listened and held me when I cried. He was that one person I could call and regardless of the situation he would be there. He was different. He was my peace. He made me feel safe and protected. 

We’ve had some real dark times in our marriage. What has helped push us through is remembering where we started. Remembering the foundation of friendship, one that was divinely arranged, has kept us strong to this day. 

6 months into our relationship papa gifted me a beautiful promise ring. Promising me that he will always love me and will one day spend the rest of his life with me…so far, he’s made good on that promise.